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Excuse Me, Your Ultimate Destiny Is Just Waiting for
You To Come True to Your Dreams, Imagine That!

 "Your dreams are just waiting for you to come true." Imagine That!
John Prieskorn, founder of The Spirit of Coaching® and one of our favorite coaches.  

In her book, Excuse Me, Your Life Is Waiting, author Lynn Grabhorn summarizes the Law of Attraction in 4 steps:

Step 1. Identify what you don't want.

Step 2. Identify what you do want.

Step 3. Find the feeling place of your wants and

Step 4. Expect, listen, and allow the Universe to deliver what you desire.

"By learning to control the tenor and flow of your electromagnetic energy,
you are learning to take control of your destiny."
-- Lynn Grabhorn

The coauthors of the 14 programs in the Ultimate Destiny Success System Library
www.UltimateDestinyUniversity.com agree with these 4 steps. However, in our experiences as students and facilitators of programs on realizing your potential and the "Art of Allowing" as Abraham describes the process through Esther Hicks, we have found that many if not most of us need help with at least a couple of these 4 steps.

We have identified 7 Steps that we believe you need to know about and begin taking in order to develop your gifts and co-create your Ultimate Destiny:

Step 1: Know who you are why you are here.

Step 2: Imagine your Ultimate Destiny.

Step 3: Envision your desired outcomes.

Step 4: Nurture your heart's desires.

Step 5: Set empowering priority goals.

Step 6: Develop plans and take action.

Step 7: Feel grateful and appreciative.

It seems quite easy to identify what we don't want. The other 3 steps are easier to complete through the types of self-discovery exercises and self-assessment tools provided in the Ultimate Destiny Success System.

In fact, when we first began facilitating workshops, we only listed 6 questions on the Ultimate Destiny Discovery Exercise. The first question was: What do you want in this area? The second question was: What would be ultimate in this area? And the third question was: How could you nurture your heart's desires?


As life-long students of personal growth and development, we could easily jump right in to the process. However, we discovered that most people don't really know what they truly want. In most cases, they have never even considered what the ultimate possibilities might be for them and they rarely were able to answer the question of How could they nurture their heart's desires.

After many months, a couple of years actually, of experimenting with various questions, we developed the 12 step questions that are featured as the heart of each of the 14 main titles: in the Ultimate Destiny Success System library. They include the following questions:

What is it that I don't want in this area?

What Do I Want?

What is the ultimate possibility?

How will I feel when I have all that I want in this area?
How can I nurture my heart's desires in this area?
What priority goals will I set for this area?

What are the hurdles and obstacles I will need to overcome?
Who will be my coaches and mentors?

Who will be my cheerleaders and master mind support?
What action steps can I take to move forward in this area?  What affirmations could I use?

What visual images will help me remember to hold my vision?

In addition, the Ultimate Destiny Success System Self-assessment Exercises help you discover how well you are doing in each of the 14 main areas of realizing your potential, fulfilling your life purpose and manifesting your ultimate destiny. The Ultimate Destiny Wheel of Life Exercise helps you discover how you would prioritize the 14 areas of successful living. It also helps you discover the synergy and potential correlation between various spokes of the wheel.

Some of our favorite quotes from Excuse Me, Your Life Is Waiting that reinforce the Ultimate Destiny Success System and its expanded focus include the following:

If you want to change the conditions in your life, you've got to
change your vibration, so practice until you can change them in a blink.

Just remember, the way you think is the way you feel, and the way you
feel is the way you vibrate, and the way you vibrate is the way you attract.

lf you can feel it, you can have it. You can have anything you want if you can feel it first.

We invite you to experience for yourself the insightful and empowering programs contained in the Ultimate Destiny Success System and the other programs from Ultimate Destiny.  The shared vision and mission of the participating organizations is what  we refer to as helping people A.R.K. --  Awaken to their true spiritual identity; Realize more of their inherent potential and Know how to manifest their ultimate destiny.

Our visualization statement is: We bless, serve and help millions of people Awaken to Spirit, Realize more of their potential and Know how to fulfill their ultimate destiny. We manifest StewardHeirShip over billions of dollars in the process. We co-create and distribute programs and resources for education, empowerment and enlightenment that eventually produce a trillion dollar legacy of positive global impact.

To accomplish our vision and mission, we publish, produce, market and distribute programs, products and services designed to help achieve our goals and plans. For example,
Ultimate Destiny Network and Ultimate Destiny University are launching the Ultimate Destiny Success System (UDSS). The system consists of 14 individual programs that help participants discover and manifest their ultimate destiny, whatever that means to each one individually.

The Ultimate Destiny Success System includes interactive digital programs on: Manifesting Your Ultimate Destiny; Solving Your Ultimate Destiny Success Puzzle; Realizing Your Ultimate Potential; Enjoying Loving Relationships; Fulfilling Your Life Purpose and Mission; Enjoying Financial Freedom and Prosperity; Achieving Ultimate Success in Business/Career; Enjoying Ultimate Health and Fitness; Harnessing Your Creative Mind; Raising Your Consciousness Level; Attaining Spiritual Enlightenment; Enjoying Peace and Balance;  Making a Difference and Leaving a Legacy; and Fostering Personal and Planetary Sustainability.

 CENTER SPACE is launching several spiritually centered programs including: Setting Spiritual Centered New Year’s Resolutions; Enlightenment 101; Partnership with God; Rise and Shine with Seven Ascension Attitudes; Crowned with the Ultimate Success of the Lord; and T.U.L.I.P.S. -- The Ultimate Life Inpowerment Planning System.

All of these titles are available from Ultimate Destiny and CENTER SPACE for review,
initially as e-books on a “pay what it’s worth to you” donation basis

For more information, please call Charles Betterton at 760-212-9931,visit www.UltimateDestinyland.com and www.centerspace.com, or send an email to ultimatedestinyuniversity@gmail.com  with the words Review Copies in the Subject Line and include the titles you would like to receive. Thank you!

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