10 Things You
Can Do in the Next 10 Days to Fulfill Your Mission
By
Kimberley Jace
Is your
life on track? Do you know
where you’re heading, and
how well you are progressing
toward your goals?
Maybe you’re still trying to
figure out what you’ll be
“when you grow up.” While
others set out toward
certain careers, you’re
still floundering.
Or maybe you once wrote out
a list of things you wanted
to accomplish, but now you
can’t remember where you put
that list – or what was on
it. Maybe you should have
made keeping track of your
goals one of the priorities
on that list.
You don’t have to have a
firm career in mind in order
to make progress toward
fulfilling your life’s
purpose. The truth is, a
simple shift in your
perspective can make the
difference between a life of
achievement and
satisfaction, and one of
just muddling through until
you die.
Examining your own beliefs
about your life’s mission,
then working to clarify and
detail those beliefs, is a
definite step toward finding
that mission. Unless you’re
willing to think about your
life in that way – as a
joyful march toward your
destiny – life might pass
you by unlived.
In Fulfilling Your Life
Purpose, Mission and Goals
from Ultimate Destiny
University, you will
find self-assessment
questions that reveal your
underlying attitudes about
the course of your life, as
well as material to help you
understand the results, and
references to the books that
really make a difference --
books that teach you not
what you should be, but how
you can learn to determine
that for yourself.
Can’t wait to start? Here
are 10 things you can do in
the next 10 days to
take the first steps on the
path toward fulfilling your
mission. Read one item from
this list each day and work
on incorporating it into
your life. As you add new
skills, don’t forget to keep
up the lessons from the
earlier days.
These are subtle but
important changes in
perspective and behavior
that will help you become
the most successful person
you can be.
1. Stop negative talk.
Decide that today, and from
here on, that you will never
describe your life and
progress in negative terms.
Never again say, “I have no
idea where I belong” or “I’m
not in a position to make
much of a difference in the
world.” Unless you actually
want to stay lost and
insignificant, stop sending
energy to those negative
concepts.
2. Visualize. Take
some time to form a mental
picture of yourself as
someone who is making sure,
steady progress toward a
mission in life. How do you
feel while going about your
daily activities? And
picture yourself toward the
end of your life, reviewing
all the many accomplishments
that make you proud. How
will it feel to know you
lived life fully? Develop
the most complete picture
you can of yourself as
successful, and return to
that image often throughout
the day.
3. Affirm. It’s not
enough to just stop saying
you are lost; you must
affirm that you know your
direction in life. No matter
what condition you are in at
this moment, you have the
power to claim a better
condition. When you wake up
in the morning, say aloud,
“I know who I am, and where
I’m going.” As you drive,
repeat, “I see progress in
my life every day.” Before
you retire at night, say
aloud, “I’ve spent a
productive day, I learned a
lot, and I feel myself
moving toward my goals.”
Draw energy to that perfect
vision of yourself by
describing your vision in
words – out loud – and
often.
4. Pray. If you’re
not a religious type, or not
sure you believe in God,
then choose your higher
self, a higher power,
Nature, guardian angels, or
whatever you think is “out
there.” Ask for help in
three parts: a request, an
affirmation and a thank-you.
“Spirit, please clarify my
purpose in life. I am now
doing what I was intended to
do. Thank you, Spirit, for
guiding me.”
5. Know yourself. You are
the expert on you, and the
more you understand about
yourself, the better you can
guide your progress. Life
doesn’t come with an
instruction manual, but we
do have clues: our passions
and our talents. What do you
really care about? What
makes your heart soar, or
pound with excitement? And
what are you really good at?
Don’t assume you only like
or excel at the same things
others do; your passions and
talents are likely to be
quite different from
everyone else’s. Take time
to write down the moments in
your life when you have felt
really alive and happy; your
passions are in there. Then
think about what you have to
offer. Get help from those
who love you if necessary.
What has drawn praise to
you? When have you felt
special? Your talents are
there. Write this down.
6. Write a plan. Your
life should have a mission
statement and a clear set of
short- and long-range goals.
Your mission statement will
reflect both your passions
and your values. “I do my
best to help children and
animals because I’m a
defender of the helpless” or
“I do my best to help my
community, because I believe
in people working together.”
When your mission statement
is clear, you can derive
goals from it. Do you want
to organize a humane
society, or a foster home
for children? Do you want to
run for political office, or
campaign for a social
change? Write down a list of
many possible things you’d
like to accomplish that
would help fulfill your
mission, and be ready to add
goals as you think of them.
7. Track yourself.
Develop a system to review
your goals and decide on
your next steps. Some
experts suggest spending a
few minutes at the end of
each week looking at what
you accomplished and
planning the next week’s
priorities. At the end of
the year, you might want to
spend a weekend doing the
same thing in greater depth,
reviewing the year and
making plans instead of
“resolutions” for the coming
year. Some people like to do
this on a birthday. Decide
when you will touch base
with your basic plan, and
schedule those times now.
8. Feel grateful. It
might sound
counter-intuitive to be
“thankful” for your
successful life if you feel
you’ve accomplished nothing
yet. But that attitude of
gratitude will help draw
success to you. Thank your
God, or life itself, that
you have found the perfect
mission and are making
steady progress toward it.
Imagine how grateful you
will feel looking back at a
life well-lived, and hold
that feeling in your heart.
9. Release the past.
This is a difficult step for
many people, but it’s vital.
Remember: You can start from
this moment to take charge
of your life. If you now
believe you weren’t given
the right direction in your
life – by parents, teachers
and mentors – forgive them.
The people you’ve known did
what they knew how to do to
guide you, and now you can
take responsibility to guide
yourself. If you feel you
have wasted much of your
life, forgive yourself, too.
You’ve done what you knew
how to do so far, and you’ve
learned. You weren’t ready
before to take charge of
your life – but now, you
are. Let go of what was. If
you’re accustomed to
reacting to life’s crises
instead of staking out
opportunities, that was
yesterday. Your tomorrows
can be whatever you want
them to be. You are born
anew.
10. Let joy in.
Sometimes we become so
discouraged, we forget to
appreciate the small steps
forward that make up each
day. We don’t notice our
progress, or we think we’re
imagining it. But to have
joy in your life, you’re
going to have to let
yourself appreciate every
right choice you make. Joy
is often fleeting; recognize
it when it comes and savor
it fully. It will return
more often.
You have now spent 10 days
unlearning bad habits,
learning good ones, and
adding activities to your
day. See if you can keep
them up for another 10 days,
and then perfect them in the
10 days after that. Pray,
visualize and affirm every
day. Watch what you say and
think, and keep yourself
positive. Forgive those who
wrong you and feel grateful
for the things that go
right. Keep writing down
your goals and action plans,
and put those plans into
action! When you catch
yourself clinging to old
ways, let them go. And let
yourself feel good about it!
One month from today, you’ll
be on your way to doing
whatever you were born to
do.
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